当我们长大以后。。。

Effective Communication A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: ‘I am blind, please help.’ There were only a few coins in the hat.                                                                                                                                                               A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, ‘Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?’ The man said, ‘I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.’ What he had written was: ‘Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.’ Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing? Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?   Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively. Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Great men say, ‘Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.’ The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling!! And even more beautiful, knowing that you are the reason behind it!

 

A meaningful article to share….

快乐的钥匙

　　一天，我和一位朋友去报摊上买报纸，朋友礼貌地对报贩说了声谢谢，但报贩却是满脸冷漠，一点儿礼节性的回应也没有。
　　”这家伙态度很差，是不是？”我们拿好报纸继续向前走去，我按捺不住问我的朋友。
　　 “他每天晚上都是这样的。”朋友说。
　　”哦！那么你为什么还是对他那么客气？ “我有些不解。
　　朋友侧过头来看了看我，脸上带着一种让人感觉很舒畅的笑容，反过来问我：”为什么我要让他决定我的行为？为什么要让别人的情绪来影响自己的情绪呢？ ”
　　是啊！我们每个人心中都有一把”快乐的钥匙” ，但我们却常在不知不觉中把它交给别人掌管。
　　一位女士抱怨道：”我活得很不快乐，因为先生常出差不在家。”她是把快乐的钥匙放在她先生的手里。
　　一位妈妈说：”我的孩子不听话，让我很生气！”她是将钥匙交在她孩子的手中。
　　一个男人可能说：”上司不赏识我，所以我情绪低落。”他把快乐钥匙塞在他的领导手里。
　　婆婆说： “我的媳妇一点也不孝顺，我真命苦！”
　　媳妇说：”我的公婆为什么好像总不满意我的表现呢？”
　　有人会为窗外的噪声烦躁不已；
　　有人会为脚下的垃圾大骂出声；
　　有人会为连天的阴雨情绪低落；
　　有人会为夏日的酷阳紧锁眉头……
　　这些人都做了相同的决定，就是让别人让身外的东西来控制自己的心情；都将本来可以属于自己掌管的快乐的钥匙，在不知不觉中交了出去。
　　当我们容许别人掌控我们的情绪时，我们便觉得自己是受害者，于是，抱怨与愤怒成为我们惟一的选择。我们开始怪罪他人，并且传达一个信息：”我这样痛苦，都是你造成的，你要为我的痛苦负责！ ”
　　这样的人，容易使别人不喜欢接近，甚至望而生畏。这样的人，难以从自然中去寻求自然的快乐，甚至本来可以让人愉悦的东西，也变成了他忧郁的源泉。
　　一个成熟的人，应该能握住自己快乐的钥匙。
　　我们应该不要期待别人使自己快乐，反而应该尽可能地将自己的快乐与幸福带给周围的人。我们不要奢望自然会将快乐自动地奉献到我们的手里，我们要学会从自然中去寻找发掘出自然的快乐。
　　假若我们这般做到了，那么，我们的这个世界，就是一个阳光灿烂的世界，就会有了更多的快乐与幸福。
　　我们身处的地方，不论是环境、人、事、物，都很容易影响我们的情绪，
 
别忘了，决定快乐的钥匙，只在你自己 手中

 Why Ladies today are still single?

  1.  The nice men are ugly.

 2.  The handsome men are not nice.

 3.  The handsome and nice men are gay.

 4.  The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.

 5.  The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have No money.

 6.  The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.

 7. The handsome men without money are after our money.

 8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.

 9.  The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.

10.   The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!

11.   The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?

 ”Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it’s our  job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you’d like to have dinner with.”

It’s been a while since i posted. few mths, lots of thing happen, most of it were happy moments.

my little nephew- our Wong family new prince was born. He took all my parent’s attention, until they sometime forgot they still have a younger daughter in KL… We all adore him like our king, he got watever he want.

He is 5 mths plus now, starting to learn how to speak. He is a super talkative and active boy. although most of the time we don’t understand what he trying to say, but we still happily ‘talk’ to him. ‘R we nuts? hope no1 will think we are weirdo…’

His grandpa, my dad become a soft man in front of him. Dad change xuan’s diaper, feed him, play with him, take him to bed. We seldom have chance to hold the baby too long, as the my dad, the grandpa will take him away from us… sigh… but the baby love grandpa to hold him the most, as my dad got a huge hand and warm hug that make the baby so confortable.

I miss the prince… soon.. i will go back and play with him lo

this is  a meaningful 10 things we shd do in our life….i plug it from some where else… enjoy

2。 遇到可相信的朋友时，要好好和他相处，因为在人的一生中，能遇到的知己不多

3。遇到人生中的贵人时，要记得好好感激，因为他是你人生的转折点

4。 遇到曾经爱过的人，记得微笑向他感激，因为他是让你更懂得爱的人

5。遇到曾经恨过的人，要微笑向他打招呼，因为他让你更加的坚强

6。遇到曾经背叛你的人时，跟他好好聊一聊。因为若不是他今天你也不会懂这个世界

7。 遇到曾经偷偷喜欢的人时，要祝他幸福，因为你喜欢他时，不是希望他幸福快乐吗？？

8。遇到匆匆离开你人生的人时，要谢谢他走过你的人生，因为他是你精彩回忆的一部分。。

9。遇到曾经和你有误会的人时，要趁现在解清误会，因为你可能只有这一次的机会解释清楚

10。遇到现在和你相伴一生的人，要百分百的感谢他爱昵，因为你们现在都得到幸福和真爱。。
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Nice Port Dickson Trip (7 Nov- 8 Nov)

 

We had a great PD trip… the chicken wings was yummy; the curry chicken n meehoon from Jolene’s mum was great. The people are funny and crazy… we had so much fun& laughs in this trip. Although we still have small minor problem … cant mentioned it here, its secret. Haha….

 

Really need to salute to our organizer- Chris, Eric and Jolene. U guys are rock! I enjoyed the trip very much, even though someone did try so hard to get us drunk. But unfortunately, me n ccl are tough. Please train urself b4 u wanna challenge us lo… kekeke

Hmmm… I had a nose bleed 2 days continuously. 1^st time in my 26 years of life having nose bleed. It’s scary to see so many bloods came out from your nose. It makes u worried whether you have any hidden sickness. 

Some  of my colleagues are panic when see my nose bleed. Luckily doctor said it cause by the heat of my body. I’m learn that, we shouldn’t blow out the bloods, have to press your nose for 5 mins, so that it will stop bleeding.

Recently I keep on fallen sick, Vivian already called me sick baby. I think I really have became sick baby la L Really need to take good care of my body from today onwards….

So people, no more yamcha at night, no more drinking session, no more movie or any form of entertainment… until im fully recover. But… my recent schedule have been fully book until end of Nov ler…

People, tell me what to do… bday celebration cannot say NO, holiday outing definitely is ON,  meet up Sammy cannot postpone, colleague’s wedding definitely have to attend….. SHIT… sounds like I cant rest lo.

But, strictly NO yamcha for the month of November lo… Don’t u dare to invite me yamcha, if my nose bleed again, u have to bare the consequences… :p   

it’s the season of fallen sick…. and im one of the victim running nose, light fever… bone pain pain. AND… i still need to work. Did i heard someone say MC… Darling O darling, m too bz to get a rest, do u think i can get a MC n rest at home… It’s a NO NO la… 

how wish im staying with my parent, so that they can cook me the porridge, bring me to doctor,place the wet towel on my forehead, kiss me n make me sleep. And i can manja with them…. how wish i can be with them right now.

Sob sob… but sad to say…this is the price we need to pay for being an independent adult… NO More manja.

Hope the sick virus can loss to my body’s antibiotik worriors…. How wish….

Women And Their Zodiac Characteristics
By Pankaj Khanna                                                                

LEO - WOMEN

If your date of birth falls between 23rd July and 22nd August, then you are a Leo woman.

Physical Appearance 

• You possess an imposing persona and have a royal air around you. err.. quite true
• Well developed bones, broad shoulders, tall, well-built and muscular body characterise a Leo woman. Nope, Im fat n short :p
• Your stature is full and you look majestic and dignified. Dunno, nd s1 else to tell me lor

Mental Attitude

• You are ambitious and commanding. You will like to be in positions where people look towards you for guidance and direction. A Leo woman has sufficient mental and emotional strength to don the mantle of a leader.You tend to perform better in a stressful situation more than in daily routine. 99% correct
• A Leo woman is mentally very agile and has a very good grasp of the things. However she also has the tendency to while most of her time in pursuing activities of leisure and recreation. 99% correct
• One of the negative things about you is your inability to work steadily for a long period of time. 99.99% correct

General Nature

• Women born in Leo sign normally have a royal nature. Activities like taking side of the weak, giving donations etc. come naturally to you. With a good capacity to organize & manage , you can manage organisations very effectively. Hmm… im seems like tat
• You are very sure of yourself and are able to mingle with all people, high and low alike. err… maybe :p
• Refined tastes are generally found in your type and you are keenly interested in dance, music and poetry. i love music and dancing.. but not poetry
• On the flip side - you are a quite a slave of flattery and people can misuse this weakness of yours to get the results that they desire from you. female love to be flatter.. don’t we
• Sometimes you also become difficult to get along with. You want every thing to go your way and you fail to see that other human beings also exist and they too can have a desire or say in any subject. Hmm.. i will take note on this

Health

• Your health problems are related to heart, the spinal column and bones. You should take care by way of proper food and regular exercise.
• You should take very long walks and do a lot of physical work to ward off the stress from your body.
• Your health problems also stem from a view that everything should run according to your wish and when it fails to happen you get irritable and majorly stressed. 

Money

• You tend to gradually more over to areas that provide high income and social respect . Money wise, you should be quite well-off. 
• A leo woman has generous nature and gives away money to any one who is able to get her sympathy.
• Showing off is also a negative trait which leads you to overspend and waste your money.

Romance And Sex Life

• You are fiery and passionate. You will attract men but will not allow them to come very close to you - because you feel your royal status can be compromised by that. You know well how to handle men and even the worst of them will behave properly in your audience. No comment.. hahaha
• Centre of your back is your hotspot.

Marriage

• You are very true and faithful to your husband and will try to improve your house by all possible means. If your husband can understand you well and have faith in you, your married life will be very good. I believe so
• You will go out of your way to do the extra bit to improve the house and care for your husband. You will not mind the extra effort or the pain you may have to incur. But if your husband is not understanding and supportive , the marriage will definitely face rough weather and you may move out of it. 99% correct

Ideal Match

• Your best match will with natives born in Aries or Sagittarious sign. h, Virgo and Gemini can also keep you happy though. 

Caution

• It is rightly said that ‘flattery is a food of fools’. You should not be carried away with it. One thing you should remember that one who flatters you has some aim in mind for which he or she wants to use you. You should instead be open to creative criticism. 

Lucky Days, Numbers And Colours

• Sunday and Tuesday are lucky days for you.
• 1, 4, 5, 9, 6 are lucky numbers for you.
• Red, Orange, and green are your lucky colours.

Recommended Gemstones

Ruby and Emerald are your Gemstones. The Gems should be of vibrant Aura and should not have been worn before. The weight can be decided as per your body weight and age. Anyone… pls get me a Ruby